Some Clarifications

“Homosexuality: The REAL Sickness” “Islam wants gay people dead” “Christianity calls for killing fags” “God hates fags” “BUT THE BIBLE SAYS _____” “BUT THE QURAN SAYS ______” “so death to all fags” “also non-virgin women wut”

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“America is turning into a matriarchy” “men are much more oppressed than women are” “make me a sammich woman” “oh women are just imagining discrimination there’s no glass ceiling” “women who want to pay for dates are evil nazi feminists” “women shouldn’t hold the doors open for men” “lord help us if we ever have a female president” 

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“supporting abortion rights means you hate babiez” “women who use birth control are sluts” “no way should birth control availability be considered in health plans” “oh but viagra no viagra should def. be included” “if women today kept their legs closed they wouldn’t need birth control now would they”

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There’s a girl in my Economics section who (to be blunt) speaks like a ditzy valley girl and dresses in very tight and very little clothing. She always answers our TF’s questions with uncertainty and self-conscious giggles. It is so easy to stereotype this girl and refuse to take her seriously. 

After a full semester with her, I realized something else about her today: When you actually analyze what she says — if you were to look at a transcript of the class discussions instead of watching, listening, and dismissing — you would realize that she is fucking brilliant. When everyone else is lost, she knows what’s going on. And it’s evident that she must read about economics in her free time because she supplements some answers with information that I know is not in the textbook.

It’s a shame that people dismiss others — usually girls — for the way they choose to dress or the way they speak. I’m guilty of this too. But if she can contribute this much in class, you can bet your ass that she’s going to contribute to society. 


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www.globalfundforwomen.org

mejma:

the fact that women’s rights are an election issue in the year 2012 AD

So I woke up this morning in a pool of my own blood.

itscandidlycara:

Wait, let me back up.

Hi, my name is Cara and I’m a 21 year old woman. Every 28 days, give or take, I have a period. And it fucking sucks. Today, was one of those where I take from the 28 day cycle. I wasn’t due for another period for at least a week, but considering that my period is pretty much permanently irregular, I get to wake up a lot of mornings in a pool of my own blood. Hmm. Lovely.

I then proceed to dump my sheets, my underwear, and my pajamas in my laundry room in a tub filled with cold water, with the hopes that this time I haven’t ruined them permanently.

What next? Well, a shower of course! To wipe off the smell of rotting blood from my body! Squeaky clean and towel fresh I have about a two minute window before the volcano of blood begins to erupt again from my vagina.

What will it be today? A piece of chlorinated toilet paper cardboard with a string that I get to shove up my hole wherein the blood will sit and rot until the next time I can shove another piece of chlorinated cardboard up the same hole? Or, a plastic lined toilet paper diaper attached to my underwear that causes rug burn to my vaginal area when I walk? Well the later requires less coordination, and it is early, so I guess I’ll be sitting in a period diaper today. The best ever.

Of course, I could always just get birth control, and lessen this whole shit. But 1) I can’t afford it 2) I can’t ask my dad to pay for it because, guess what? Just like the men who run my government, my father correlates birth control with sexual promiscuity! Thus, sitting on my rotting blood, undergoing severe cramps that have on more than one occasion caused me to black out, it is! (Not that birth control is such a walk in the park either, our bodies have to learn to deal with the hormones and other chemicals and consequences that birth control entails.)

Then, I get to go to class, where I have to pretend that I am not a leaky faucet of blood and tissue. I get to sit in Calculus, and if heaven forbid, I need an additional pad, I have to be discrete about it, so as not to offend the men’s gentle sensibilities to the fact that I am the one dropping tissues and blood from my body through my vagina.  

I once asked a male to take me to the pharmacy so that I could pick up (GASP) pads, or as we like to call it “feminine products” (again, so as not to offend the gentlemen’s overly sensitive natures) and had him equate me talking about my period to him talking about his erections.

ARE

YOU

FUCKING

KIDDING

ME

No.

This is nothing like your fucking erection’s. I don’t derive any enjoyment from this. I can’t mentally control any ounce of this entire process. I can’t masturbate my problem away. My period does not end in orgasm.

It stays. For at least five days in my case. Draining blood out of my body. Causing me severe cramps, making me irritable -not because I’m uncomfortable (which mind you, would be reason enough) - but because my hormones are all over the place, bloating me up to two sizes larger than I normally am, I have to actively fight not to smell like a fish market, and on top of that, you want me to be hush-hush about this? Because it’s icky for you?

And this is not an attack on that one man, this is an attack on ALL MEN who on top of sitting on their throne of gender privilege want me to stay quiet and be content about the fact that five days out of every month I get to undergo this happiest of joys.

And then, these very same men have the audacity to get annoyed because we don’t want to listen to their bullshit complaining about traffic? Or whatever other meaningless story they happen to tell us while our bodies are actively fighting against us? Then we get to be the butt of their tired-ass jokes? Sorry, I am most certainly not sorry.

I repeat NO. I say women come out of the period closet and say, “You know what, this happens to me. Every. Fucking. Month. And it’s terrible. LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT MY MORNING.” Because the truth is, if I live in a country where Viagra is covered by medical insurance, but birth control isn’t, I can no longer keep denying that I live in a country that is actively waging a war on women. And if I live in a country that is actively waging war on my sex, the least I am going to do is break patriarchal social propriety to inform anyone and everyone of the shit biological process I was BLESSED enough to be born into.

Hello, my name is Cara, I’m a 21 year old woman, and today I’m on my period. Let me fucking tell you about it.

ALL THE AWARDS TO CARA

ALL

THE

AWARDS

"A Rant About Women"

An interesting article arguing that women need to be as ambitious and overly confident (read: arrogant) as men are in order to succeed. 

It’s not that women will be better off being con artists; a lot of con artists aren’t better off being con artists either. It’s just that until women have role models who are willing to risk incarceration to get ahead, they’ll miss out on channelling smaller amounts of self-promoting con artistry to get what they want, and if they can’t do that, they’ll get less of what they want than they want.

There is no upper limit to the risks men are willing to take in order to succeed, and if there is an upper limit for women, they will succeed less. They will also end up in jail less, but I don’t think we get the rewards without the risks.

Good stuff.

Afghan girl tortured after refusing prostitution

Then look at the article’s comments.

Some gems:

“Should have nuked the whole middle east on 9/11/2001 at 12pm est”

“muslims are the devils own no matter how the democrats say they are just like the rest of us they are like the democrats but not like decent folk”

“Oh…that peaceful religion at it again! LMFAO!! What a bunch of 3rd-world primatives…”

“girls and women need to do what they are told.”

“These afghans are as civilized as welfare recipients in the U.S.”

“S&M?”


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